Happiness

Happy is an adjective which means feeling, showing or causing pleasure or satisfaction

happines is a noun which means a feeling of being happy

some people may be worry about their life, may be worry about tomorrow, may be worry about being single or anything

but we have to realize that nothing is worth it to worry... everything is beautiful in its time..

laugh when you want to, sing when you want to, cry when you feel sad, scream when you need to scream, thank for everything which has done in your life...

don't worry be happy !!!

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Why we should have holiday?

H-O-L-I-D-A-Y, if this word said by someone our mind will automatically imagine some interesting places to visit such as Paris, Venice, London, Italy and somewhere else. Everyone must have their own perspective about holiday. Holiday means day(s) of rest from work or period of time spent traveling away from home. However, nowadays most people are busy with their own activities. Even, people do not have time to get relax or take a break from their works. Nowadays, holiday is ignored by people because they think that holiday is not as important as their works, waste time, spend much money, and useless. However, holiday is still important for us. There are some reasons why we should have holiday, they are to refresh our body, mind and soul, to have quality time with our family or friends and to increase life quality.

It is important for us to have holiday because it can refresh our body, mind and soul. Our body, mind and soul cannot be forced to do a lot of things. Our body needs rest or break time to get new energy that will be useful to do the next activities. By that energy, our activities could be done better than before. If our body forced to do a lot of things, we will get tired easily and we will have no energy to do the rest our activities. Then, if our body gets tired it will influence our mind and also our soul balance. Besides, holiday can also reduce the stress. If there is no holiday and our mind is too tired, stress will easily attack us. The symptoms of little stress like feeling tired, having no motivation, having no desire to do something, losing enthusiasm and feeling afraid. Those are the symptoms that can disturb our mind balance and will give effect to our body and soul because they are a unity that cannot be separated each other. Holiday is good for our health because it will make you happy if you get happy, your heart will be stimulated and works well.

The second reason is you will have quality in time with your family or friends when holiday. Because every day we must be busy with our business , have no time to get closer with others; spend day with family or friends etc. holiday is the only way to do all things that you want to do. Having a holiday is not always by going somewhere far from your home like going abroad or spending much money as like as common thoughts. If you are still think like that, you must change your opinion. Holiday is a time that is really good to get relax, you can spend your holiday by staying at home with all of the family members and doing something together such as cooking, painting the wall, playing around at the backyard and anything else. Those are really little things but they mean a lot. Beside stay at home, you can also go out somewhere that are not really far such as the cinema, fishing area, amusement park, mall, museum, national site, sport center and somewhere else. After you have holiday, you will feel that your relationship closer. By spending time together you will realize how important togetherness is, because we cannot live alone in this big world.

The third reason is holiday will increase life quality. By having holiday you will get happy an by getting happy you will be ready to do your works or activities after the holiday. Then, you will do your activities or works perfectly and get satisfaction. The, if you get satisfaction you will face all the problems in your life bravely and strongly without any doubt or fear. After that, you will enjoy your amazing life and decrease complaining about something that you never have or do. Thus, if you get increase your life quality you will become a good person. By being good person who has good characters in every side, you will easily get a promotion from your boss in your work place or get good mark in school, and it will motivate you to do better next time. Besides, people who have holiday more than others will have quality of sleep better than others who do not have holiday.

So, what are you waiting for? Go pack your stuffs and get a great holiday when you feel exhausted and bored with your activities. Do not let your works make you cannot get any break time at all. Get relax, feel happy, get closer with family and friends and get the good quality of life by holiday, not only a holiday but the another holiday. Smart people, have holiday!

MY SUPER MOM

If we are talking about who is your role model, I will spontaneous answer my mother. My mother is a super woman that  I have ever had in this life. She is a beautiful woman who has short  brown curly hair, brown eyes, and fairy-skinned. She is medium built and tall. In my eyes, my mom is a super mom. It is because she is the only one who earn money for my family since my father retired.

She is a caring woman. She always remind me do not to eat late or some little things. She always call me by the phone just want to remind me to always take care of myself. I always feeling sad when I get my mom cries. however, strongly she says "Don't worry, honey. I'm okay"

I LOVE MY MOM

Asia and America, Where is the best place to live in ?

Earth has five continents. Two of them are Asia and America. They are big continents. There are many kinds of people live in both of them. They have differences such as the way of living, culture, mind set orientation and seasons.

Asia is divided into four parts. They are South East Asia, South Asia, West Asia and East Asia. Most countries in Asia still hold in traditional culture such as in wedding ceremony, funeral ceremony, superstition and many more. In Asia, there are still traditional transportation such as becak (Indonesia), tuk-tuk (Thailand) and many more. 

Although the way of living in Asia is still traditional, but there are also great places in Asia. There is Bollywood (India); a production house that is famous in the world. There are also Universal Studio (Singapore) and Disney Land (Japan). Asians have unique clothes for daily activities. Generally, Asian people wear simple clothes but the traditional one is more detail and great.

Asians have a group orientation; it means Asian people are sociable. Asia is also rich of culture. Every country has their own culture characteristics. For example, in Japan and Korea; they have a tradition of tea party. It is same in name but different in the way to do and meaning. 

 

Asian still has present and past orientation; it means that Asians focus on what happens at present and past time. Only a few of the Asians focus on the future. It does not mean that Asians do not think about future life at all; it just like Asian does not think about that may be happen in the future such as how to face  wars, diseases, disasters and especially Asians does not think about how to improve the technology. The countries in Asia mostly have two seasons. They are dry season and rainy season. However, there are also countries that have four seasons such as Japan and Korea.

America is divided into two parts. They are North America and South America or Latin America. America is a developed continent. America has modern way of living. The people are not traditional like Asians, they have metropolitan lifestyle. They prefer going to club to going to natural sites.

In style of wearing clothes, they are fashionable and they have individualism orientation. They have modern transportation like monorail. They also have a great and famous production house named Hollywood. It is the most famous and favorite production house in the world. 

The cultures in America are also great and they are different in every country. For example, there is Samba dance from Brazil, it is a fast dance. The mind set orientation in America is future orientation. The people are competing with each other to have something new or something important to the future. They focus on the technology. They try to find or create a new useful technology. They have a high imagination about the future, even they have prepared about how to face wars, diseases, disasters and many more. Mostly, the countries in America have four seasons. They are spring, summer, autumn and winter. However there is also country that has two seasons like Mexico.

Choosing where to live in Asia or America depends on ourselves. Both of them have their strength and weakness. Both of them are also great place to live in. in Asia, you can find so many interesting places and cultures. In America, you can find so many great things that you have never seen before.

How To Choose Friend

Friend is important for us because it is our second family. As a human being we cannot live alone without others in this world. Even though you are a great person, you cannot live alone because you need others to help and support you whoever you are and whatever you do. Having a good relation with others is very important for us. It is because good relationship will lead us to happiness. Choosing friend is a little hard thing because we have so many differences from each other. If we make mistakes in choosing friend, we will regret it. It is because friend is really influencing us in every side such as mind set, behavior, academic, etc. If we choose a good friend we will be a good person but if we choose a bad friend we will be as bad as our friend. There are three steps in choosing friend they are, mingle with everybody, get closer with everyone, and choose people who make you be yourself and feel comfort.

Mingle with everybody that you just know in a new environment is the first step that you have to do. In a new environment you will feel strange and awkward, because there is no one that you know. However, it is not a reason for you not to mingle with others. By mingling, you can start to make friends. The important thing is you must be friendly with others. Being friendly is the simplest way to start to mingle with others. Giving your smile and say hello to them is a simple and nice way to show that you are a friendly person. However, you have to remember not to be over friendly. Then, introduce yourself as who you are. Let them know your name, origin, and age at the beginning of introduction. Keep the personal introduction at the next step. Do not be afraid to meet new people. By meeting new people, we can also get more option to choose friends.

The second step is get closer with everyone. In this step, try to find people that have the same interests as you and can give you advantages. You will know each other well, sharing about your hobbies, like and dislike and your personality more. Hanging out is one of thousand ways to know each other. Remember that you have to be yourself, do not push yourself to be always looked good in front of them, if you do not want to be. It is because, everyone likes to have a friend who is can be their self. Do not use a “mask” to have a lot of friends. Then, try to find people that can give you advantages. Advantage here is the influence caused by friends. Are they good enough to be your friends? Can they make you feel better? Do they really understand you? Those are questions that can help you decide what kind of people you want to be your friends. Then, you have to be open-minded to others. In this step, you may share to all of them about you but still you should keep your personal secret.

The last is choosing friend who makes you be yourself and feel comfortable. Getting closer with others does not mean you will feel comfortable. Comfort will be in a friendship if you understand each other. Friend who can accept you the way you are is a real friend. Friend does not judge you as bad or good, but friend states you as they friend even family. Sometimes, people cannot accept other as the way they are and sometimes they try to change others by their way as they want. You should be careful about this. Friendship is not about changing somebody to be who we want him or her to be. Friendship is about how to make somebody feel better and happy, accept and also love each other. There is no exception in a friendship. Real friends will stand by you in every conditions, happy or sad, rich or poor, healthy or sick. If you do not feel comfortable with them, do not push yourself to still close with them. You will be hurt someday.

Choosing friends is not as easy as you imagine. You have to mingle with everybody, get closer with everyone and choose the best one to be your friend. If you make mistakes in making friends, it will affect you in mind set, behavior, and also lifestyle. Be careful and do not be afraid of having friends because they are the most important thing for us.

How to Handle the Stress

Stress will easily attack us when we feel tired with our activities. We should handle it as soon as posible. There are some way to reduce or handle the stress in my way :

1. If you feel tired to do your assignments just take a break, don't forece yourself to work. it will make you feel more tired.



2, Go outside with your friends and have fun for a while. You can go to karaoke or mall to hanging out. Any places that can make you feeling relax is also good to visit.

3. If there is nobody want to go with you, just take yourself to walk around. I usually do it, I go outside by myself and just take a look at what happen around and trust me it works.



4. Go shopping, if I still have enough money I usually go to shopping with my friends or my brother. even though I have no money I just window shopping.

5.The last, go to salon or skin care and treat yourself with the treatment which is offered by the salon. It will help you to reduce the strees.

Those are some things that I usually do to reduce the stress when it attack me. For additional, I ussualy go to swim and eat more fruit that I love to eat, and it is really helpful.